{"id":4216,"date":"2010-04-05T06:06:26","date_gmt":"2010-04-05T13:06:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.midnighteast.com\/mag\/?p=4216"},"modified":"2010-10-18T07:59:59","modified_gmt":"2010-10-18T14:59:59","slug":"ed-hooks-on-sympathy-vs-empathy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.midnighteast.com\/mag\/?p=4216","title":{"rendered":"Ed Hooks on Sympathy vs. Empathy"},"content":{"rendered":"
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A guest post from Ed Hooks, who has kindly permitted Midnight East to republish this article from his newletter:<\/p>\n

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A PREFACE TO THIS MONTH’S CRAFT NOTES
\n<\/strong>It is essential that animators as well as stage actors understand the fundamental distinction between “empathy” and “sympathy”.\u00a0 The goal for an actor or animator is to create a sense of empathy for his character.\u00a0 Part of the problem is that, for many early years in the entertainment industry, the word “empathy” did not even exist.\u00a0\u00a0 Even a genius like Charlie Chaplin talked about “sympathy” when what he meant was “empathy” — there was simply not a word for it until the 1920’s.
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\nIf you set out to create sympathy for your character, you are on a risky path.\u00a0 As you will read in the following notes, it is okay for an audience to feel sympathy for a character — but not exclusively and not for long. If you do not generate empathy, you will lose your audience.\u00a0 Guaranteed, take it to the bank.
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\nPart of the problem in animation springs from an erroneous idea of what strong performance is in the first place.\u00a0 Too many animation directors think that if a character can show emotion, that is good performance.\u00a0 Actually, emotion by itself has zero theatrical currency.\u00a0 This is true for all theatrical forms, stage, film, live action and animation.\u00a0 Emotion is the point of empathy for the audience, but emotion tends to lead to action. If you don’t have action, you have nothing. The idea is to have the character play an action in pursuit of a provable objective while overcoming an obstacle.\u00a0 The audience sees the character doing that and empathizes with the emotion behind it.
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\nEach month I write two newsletters.\u00a0 The Ed Hooks Newsletter is geared to stage actors, and this one is geared to animators.\u00a0 It is rare that I share the same craft notes with both but, in this instance, it is justified.\u00a0 And so, read on….
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\nSYMPATHY VS. EMPATHY AGAIN
\n<\/strong>David Brooks, a Pulitzer Prize winning New York Times political columnist, headlined his March 16th column \u201cThe Spirit of Sympathy\u201d. What drew my attention was not his political views, but the way he misused that word \u201csympathy\u201d. Take a look at the second paragraph from the article.
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\n\u00a0\u201cTo help us in this social world, God, nature and culture have equipped us with a spirit of sympathy.\u00a0 We instinctively feel a tinge of pain when we observe another in pain (at least most of us do). We instinctively mimic, even to a small extent, the mood, manners, yawns and actions of the people around us.\u201d
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\nThe innate attribute Mr. Brooks is describing is empathy, not sympathy.\u00a0 Sympathy is when you feel sorry for somebody, and it may or may not be accompanied by empathy.\u00a0 Empathy is when you identify with another person’s feeling, recognizing that same feeling in yourself.\u00a0 The word “empathy”, which was coined in the 1920’s,\u00a0 literally means \u201cfeeling into\u201d; “sympathy”, which has been in use much longer, literally means \u201cfeeling for\u201d.\u00a0 Confusing the two is not a benign mistake for someone who makes a living by stringing words together, like David Brooks.
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\nAn understanding of the distinction between empathy and sympathy is intrinsic and essential to my personal approach to acting and acting training.\u00a0 An actor’s job is to create in the audience a sense of empathy with the character she is portraying. Yes, of course there are times when an audience will feel sympathy, but if sympathy is what they feel at the final curtain, they’re not going to be satisfied. Theatre, at its root, is a shamanistic activity, similar in purpose to organized religions.\u00a0 Both theatre and religion aim to help the tribe stay together through hard times and good, so that its members will survive into the next generation.\u00a0 We humans are bound together by our effort to survive, and it has been that way throughout history.
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\nEmpathy is an essential attribute for human survival, and terrible things happen in its absence.\u00a0 Serial killers \u2013 sociopaths \u2013 for example, do not empathize with their victims.\u00a0 Studies have shown that the part of a sociopath\u2019s brain associated with empathy is literally broken.\u00a0 That is why he can murder a person and then stop off for a burger and beer on the way home.\u00a0 And then there is Hitler.\u00a0 There are smart and responsible leaders in the Jewish community who become outraged at any attempt a performer makes to create empathy for Hitler.\u00a0 Yes, the man was evil and did horrible things but, if we do not try to understand where he was erroneously coming from emotionally, then we open ourselves to the unwitting acceptance of another just like him.
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\nNot long ago, I asked a beginning actor in my workshop how he felt about the character he was rehearsing.\u00a0 \u201cI don\u2019t like him. He does stupid things,\u201d he replied.\u00a0 A judgment like that is fair enough, and the actor is entitled to it.\u00a0 However, as I quickly advised him, he would have to find a way to love and empathize with that character if he wanted a successful portrayal.\u00a0 Every person on earth and in literature is a hero in his or her own life, even the stupid ones.\u00a0 Humans are fallible.\u00a0 We can make bad choices, and that is the reason we have theatre in the first place.\u00a0 If humans were instinctual like lions and tigers, there would not be an option for acting against our own survival and best interest.\u00a0\u00a0 When an actor plays a character, she is saying to the audience, in effect, “This is how I personally think this character is surviving in the world.”\u00a0 When the audience laughs, cries and applauds, it is saying, in effect, “I see what you mean.\u00a0 I never looked at it that way before.”
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\nWe all have different strategies, but we are all trying to survive.\u00a0 Each of us is part of a tribe that is, in turn, part of a larger global tribe.\u00a0 We universally empathize only with emotion, never with thinking, and we empathize with all seven of them – happy, fear, anger, contempt, disgust, surprise and, yes, sad.\u00a0 I visited China for the first time last year and saw immediately that the Chinese culture encourages radically different survival strategies than the ones I personally pursue.\u00a0 It doesn’t matter because we are all humans, and we are all marching in the same direction.
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\nWe humans now possess the power to destroy one another along with the planet we live on.\u00a0\u00a0 If our many tribes manage to survive, it will be because the members of each tribe have learned to empathize with the members of other tribes, not sympathize.\u00a0 With all due respect, I will now send this column to David Brooks.
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\nUntil next month …
\nEd Hooks<\/p>\n

How does empathy work in the brain? Check out Shani Waidergoren’s article on A Brain Network of Empathy<\/a>.<\/p>\n

A professional actor whose television and film credits include “Murder, She Wrote”, “Days of Our Lives”, “Full House”, “Golden Girls”, “Knight Rider”, “The Fall Guy”, “Striking Distance”, “Raising Cain” and “Heart and Souls”, Ed Hooks is the author of several books on acting. In addition to his regular acting classes, he teaches acting to animators and writes monthly newsletters for actors<\/a> and animators<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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